causes of anxiety. We espouse one thing yet live another. • We know all there is to know about love, but we aren’t known for being loving. • We know all there is to know about joy, but there is no joy in our homes. • We know all there is to know about forgiveness, but we still can’t forgive. Some years ago a pastor friend of mine was carrying on an illicit sexual affair. When it finally came to light, he was reprimanded, summarily dismissed, and put under discipline and counseling. As a friend, I